Funny coming from you mr "20% of my posts have no discussion value". Anywho how is it private? A good mate would support you by posting on your site a lot, not just using you to advertise his own site.

(sighs and rub's temples)
I don't know if Timby cares or not, but I've always found it rude to ask such personal questions. If I have offended you, my sincerest apologies.